On Personal Power

"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." - Dale Carnegie

There comes a time in the life of each and every one of us when the regrets of the past and the worries of the future weave a net around our thoughts, clamping and tying us down with chains made by none other than ourselves. As we relinquish our personal power, the quality of our life and our relationships with others, and primarily with ourselves, begins to deteriorate.

When that happens, I remember what Anthony Robbins says: "It's not what's happening to you now or what has happened in your past that determines who you become. Rather, it's your decisions about what to focus on, what things mean to you, and what you're going to do about them that will determine your ultimate destiny. You are now at a crossroads. This is your opportunity to make the most important decision you will ever make. Forget your past. Who are you now? Who have you decided you really are now? Don't think about who you have been. Who are you now? Who have you decided to become? Make this decision consciously. Make it carefully. Make it powerfully."

One of the tools that has helped me in the past and continues to do so now is the following self-confidence mantra:

**Total Self-Confidence**

1. I am resourceful, and I have the ability to do whatever it takes to succeed and to support all those whom I love.

2. I enjoy life's challenges, and I learn from everything that happens in my life.

3. I live each day with passion and power.

4. I feel strong and powerful, happy, and excited.

5. I have tremendous confidence in my talents and abilities.

6. I meet every situation knowing I am its master.

7. I have deep respect for myself and for everyone I meet each day.

8. I am committed to performing at the best of my ability in all that I do.

9. I forgive myself and others easily.

10. I am aware of the priceless value of my life and the life of everyone I meet.

11. My confidence is unshakable because I live with integrity.

12. I am always at peace because I trust and follow my internal guidance.

This mantra helps me stay grounded and focused, empowering me to overcome challenges and pursue my goals with unwavering determination.